With two words, Jason Collins stepped out of the closet and into the history books on Monday: "I'm gay." Collins writes in an article for Sports Illustrated, "I
didn't set out to be the first openly gay athlete playing in a major
American team sport. But since I am, I'm happy to start the
conversation." And we're so glad he did.
Collins, 34, has played in the NBA for 12 years, most recently with the Washington Wizards, but on the cover of Sports Illustrated he is branded as simply "The Gay Athlete," a title Collins now wears with pride. As Collins explains in SI, however, this wasn't always the case.
"When I was younger I dated women. I even got engaged. I
thought I had to live a certain way," Collins writes. "I thought I
needed to marry a woman and raise kids with her. I kept telling myself
the sky was red, but I always knew it was blue."
Of his decision to come out, Collins says, "No one wants
to live in fear. I've always been scared of saying the wrong thing. I
don't sleep well. I never have. But each time I tell another person, I
feel stronger and sleep a little more soundly."
While Collins' announcement has largely been met with a
sense of excitement, support, and encouragement (with tweets of
gratitude and support coming from the likes of Ellen DeGeneres and Kobe Bryant, among others), some have not been so accepting of Collins' news. ESPN analyst Chris Broussard most notably — and despicably— said live on a special edition ESPN's Outside the Lines,
"If you’re openly living in unrepentant sin, whatever it may be, not
just homosexuality, [but] adultery, fornication, premarital sex between
heterosexuals … I believe that’s walking in open rebellion to God."
Others, meanwhile, have raised eyebrows at the timing of
Collins' announcement. Currently a free agent, Collins is looking to be
signed again next year, and Nike has reportedly expressed interest in
signing the first openly gay male athlete to a major endorsement deal. People are asking, Is Collins cashing in on his homosexuality? In an article titled "Be Happy for Jason Collins," Grantland
writer Brian Phillips tackles this issue head on. "We have a tendency,
or anyway I do, to skip past the important part of any given issue,
which we usually grasp right away, and stake out positions on some
knowing or contrarian periphery," Phillips writes.
But Phillips urges readers and fans to resist falling back
on their cynicism. "Some will surely taunt him; some will cheer him.
Either way, he’ll be out there," he writes. "And simply by being out
there, he’ll make it a little easier for another gay player to feel free
to be himself, and a little easier for the world to accept him when he
does."
And that's the message Collins leaves us with as well.
"Openness may not completely disarm prejudice, but it's a good place to
start," he writes for SI. "The most you can do is stand up for
what you believe in. I'm much happier since coming out to my friends and
family. Being genuine and honest makes me happy."
Collins' honesty make us happy, too. Happy and hopeful for
a culture in which a male athlete won't have to announce his sexual
orientation on the cover of a national magazine. We're getting there.
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