NEW YORK, N.Y. -- Justin
Bieber’s mom, Pattie Mallette, has left out some of the rougher details
of her early life for a new teen edition of her memoir, “Nowhere But
Up.”
Out Tuesday from the
inspirational publisher Revell, the book includes advice, statistics and
hotline numbers for young people on depression, pregnancy, bullying and
unwanted sexual advances.
Mallette,
who gave birth to Bieber at age 18, faced all of those problems and
more growing up in Canada. She now lives in Los Angeles and recently
shared her story with young people in the Watts projects, hoping her
struggles and turn to Christianity can offer hope.
“There
was this one young man. He was probably late teens, early 20s. He said,
‘You know, who knew that your story could relate so much with me and
that I would have so many similarities with the things that you went
through,’” Mallette recalled in a telephone interview from Los Angeles.
“I mean, his sister’s been shot, but he’s been through so many similar
emotions and so many similar circumstances.”
For
Mallette, those circumstances began with the painful divorce of her
parents when she was 2. Sex abuse at the hands of a series of tormenters
began at 3. She was left with a feeling of worthlessness that led her
to drinking, drugging and a suicide attempt by age 17.
“A
lot of teenagers are feeling really discouraged at their
circumstances,” said Mallette, whose memoir co-written with A.J. Gregory
came out last year.
And what of her own son? Mallette was tightlipped about Bieber’s lower moments of late.
There
have been reports of speeding in his Calabasas, Calif., neighborhood,
run-ins with paparazzi, boos at the Billboard Awards and a pet monkey
relinquished in Germany.
While she talks to her son regularly, Mallette said Wednesday he prefers she not speak publicly about recent controversies.
“He
wants me to continue to respect his boundaries and my relationship with
him,” Mallette said. “Everybody has their own opinion and everybody
wants to sensationalize everything.”
Parenting
a teen isn’t easy for anybody, let alone a pop star with millions of
dedicated fans and followers on Twitter and Instagram.
“You
have to sort of let them make some of their own decisions,” she said.
“Me, personally, I would love to be with him all the time and to be able
to ground him and deal with his problems and do all of that stuff, but
at some point the parenting style changes. I hope to still be a
respected voice in his ear.”
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